Dating ? Pet Disagreements and How to Work Them Out ? part2

There are many ways to handle these issues and the first one if to know what you want in a relationship, what you can tolerate and are willing to work with, and what you certainly are not willing to accept. If you truly dislike pets, then maybe you should not date someone that loves his/her pets. If you have not been exposed to living with pets, but does not dislike them, then you may even find that you will like to give it a try – even with the un-friendliest of pets around. It may become a challenge. If on the other hand, you both love pets and are going to live together, then you have your work cut out for you in getting them adjusted to each other. However, the good news is that both set of pets know each one of you well, and that may help in the adjustment process.

When disagreements arise, talk them over frankly, and listen to what the other person has to say. How important is this pet in your lover’s life? Some pets have been around in someone’s life for a long time and a strong bond exists. Many pets have shared your lover’s affection and have been there for him/her before you appear in the picture – consider this when assessing the situation, and moreover, choose your words wisely, if you care about this relationship.

Spending time with the pet alone may help you understand this bundle of fur better. Observing how your lover interacts with his/her pet will give you an understanding on how strong that bond is, and you may want to become part of it.

Above all, avoid giving ultimatums to your partner, as it may end your relationship or it may make it sour – not a good start for a long time relationship. Pets are an important part in some people’s lives, as there are kids, family, and friends. Learning to handle their presence will make your relationship stronger.

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